Chapter 9 reinforces the strength of the patriarchy in 15th-century Korean households. The men and boys always eat first, suggesting that women’s needs are less important. Young-sup and Kee-sup also never question their father’s authority, nor risk doing anything of which he might disapprove. Instead of sharing the excitement and honor of becoming friends with the king, the brothers do not mention it for fear of disapproval and reprimand, given how unsanctioned that relationship is. For this reason, Young-sup cannot bring himself to argue with his father when he states that Kee-sup should be the one participating in the kite fights, even though he is the stronger flier. Rice Merchant Lee’s unquestioning belief in the social order of things prevents him from even considering his second son’s abilities, which, over time, diminish Young-sup’s confidence. This dynamic highlights the tensions between Honor and Tradition and how it could impact family relationships during the time.

The hierarchy between brothers also pits them against one another, and the consistent preferential treatment for Kee-sup finally leads to Young-sup’s angry outburst. In his anger, he cannot see that Kee-sup’s actions are motivated by love for Young-sup, and that he too struggles within the confines of this clan system. Young-sup calms down enough to realize that he does not know toward whom to direct his anger: “[H]e wasn’t really angry at Kee-sup. But he dared not be angry at his father, either; it was forbidden by the tradition of filial duty. Whom was he angry at, then?” (78). The filial tradition that dictates their behavior is much bigger than an individual person, making it impossible to speak out against anyone. However, as Kee-sup demonstrates, taking a risk and challenging the status quo can be worth it. Standing up to their father required an immense amount of courage and shows Young-sup just how much his brother loves and believes in him. A pivotal moment in their relationship, Young-sup would not have had a chance in the kite fights if not for Kee-sup’s support.

This also changes Young-sup’s priorities for the competition: Instead of flying for himself, or even the king, he is now flying to prove his brother right, which adds immense pressure to his performance. This pressure affects even his subconscious, giving him nightmares about losing. With Kee-sup’s clever approach to the kite line, and consistent practice, Young-sup hones his skills and prepares himself well. By working as a team, the brothers are both getting ready to represent their family name in the competition, and doing it as honorably as they can, making sure their special line is allowed within the competition’s rules. Their understanding of how their Identity impacts their family’s reputation is highlighted through their teamwork and determination. Both brothers are still motivated by honor and pride in their work and representing their family, even if their participation in the festival goes against tradition.